Baby shower messages
Baby shower messages guests can say on video or write
Examples for every kind of guest, from a sister to a coworker, plus simple ways to help shy guests say something kind.
See how it worksWhat should you say in a baby shower message?
A good baby shower message is short and personal. Name the parents-to-be, share one wish for the baby or one thing you admire in them, and close warmly. A few sentences are enough on a card or on video. With Video Message, guests open a link or scan a QR code, give their first name, and send a video of up to 60 seconds, a photo or a written message.
How to write a baby shower message
Most guests freeze because they want to sound perfect. Give them a simple frame instead:
- Start with the parents' first names: "Dear" and their names is all you need.
- Add one detail: a shared joke, a trait you admire, a wish.
- End with a hope for the baby.
The examples below work for a card, a spoken video or a written message. Change a word or two and they sound like you.
Messages for a girl or a boy
If the sex of the baby is known, a small nod to it adds charm. If it is a surprise, keep the wish open.
- For a girl: "Welcome, little one. May you have your mom's laugh and your dad's patience."
- For a boy: "A baby boy is on the way. He is lucky to be getting you two as his people."
- For a surprise: "We do not know who you are yet, little one, but we already love you."
Messages for parents-to-be and family
“You two are going to be wonderful parents. I cannot wait to spoil this baby and hand them back when they get loud.”
“I remember when you were the baby of the family. Now you are about to rock a little one of your own. I am so proud of you.”
“Our family just got bigger, and I could not be happier. Your child will always have a home with us.”
“You have always been the one who looks after everyone. Now let everyone look after you for a while.”
Messages from friends, coworkers and children
Tone changes with the relationship. A friend can be playful. A coworker can keep it kind and brief. Children often steal the show on video, because they say exactly what they think.
- Friend: "Sleep now while you can. I will be on the couch with snacks when the baby comes."
- Coworker: "The office will not be the same without you, but we are all thrilled for you. Enjoy every moment with your new baby."
- Child: "I hope the baby likes dinosaurs. I will share my toys. Maybe."
- Guest far away: "I wish I could be in the room with you. I am sending a hug through the screen and all my love to the baby."
Guests who cannot attend can still take part. They open the shared link on their phone and send their message from anywhere.
Tips to help shy guests
Not everyone enjoys a camera. These small nudges make it easier.
Offer a script
Put one of the example messages on a table card so guests have a first sentence ready.
Say it is short
A few sentences are plenty. The limit is 60 seconds, and a warm wish takes far less.
Let them write instead
Written messages and photos count just as much. A shy guest can type a note or send a picture.
Pick a video from the phone
Guests can film with the phone camera or choose a video they already have, so they can record at home, in a quiet corner, until it feels right.
Start with a prompt
Ask for one piece of advice, one wish or one name suggestion. A clear question is easier than a blank page.
Use up to 3 videos
Each guest can send up to 3 videos, so a first awkward take is not the only chance.
How the host collects messages with Video Message
Create the event
You get one link and one QR code for the baby shower.
Share the link
Send it by message, WhatsApp or email. Print the QR code on signs and table cards in several places at the venue.
Guests send their messages
They open the link in their browser, with no app and no account, give their first name, then send videos, photos or written messages.
Receive everything
You choose when the collection closes and can send a reminder. The first film is ready within 24 hours after it closes.
What you receive
You receive the video messages, the photo album, the written messages (also as a PDF book, digital only) and two films. The first is automatic. The second is personalized: you choose the content, order, mood, music, color look, transitions and opening and closing text.
Guests can send during the party and for a few days after. The later you close the collection, the later the first film arrives. Everything stays available for 3 months after the first film is delivered, as a privacy protection, so download the films, photos and messages to keep them forever.
For more ideas on wording the signs, see the QR code sign guide.
Baby shower messages: common questions
What can I write in a baby shower card?
Keep it to a few sentences. Greet the parents by name, add one personal detail and finish with a wish for the baby. The examples above fit a card as well as a video.
What is a good message for a coworker?
Warm and brief works best. Congratulate them, say you will miss them during leave, and wish them happiness with the new baby.
What should I say to my sister?
Be personal. Mention a moment you shared growing up, say you are proud of her and promise to help. A sister can be funny and emotional in the same message.
Can guests who live far away take part?
Yes. They open the shared link on their phone and send a video, photo or written message from anywhere.
How long can a video message be?
Each video lasts at most 60 seconds, and each guest can send up to 3 videos per phone. A few sentences fit easily.
Do guests need an app or an account?
No. They open a link or scan a QR code in their phone's browser and give their first name. Then they can send videos, photos and written messages.
Collect every baby shower message in one place
One event costs $49, or $99 for a pack of 3 events.
Go to the shopVideo messages, photos, written messages and two films for the parents-to-be.